Happy New Year! I still get a little thrown off when people say that to me (seriously where does the time go??) but every time I hear it or see it in an email or im I get a little thrill. You see I'm one of those people that love the concept of turning over a new leaf and starting fresh and a new year symbolizes that for me. Not that you can't start a new thing or be refreshed any day or time of the year but when the number of the year changes something in my head changes too. It's kind of like someone hit the reset button on my internal hard drive and I reboot.
Also, I associate a new year with 365 days of unknown possibilities and hope. Hope that something great will happen- internationally, locally, to my family, friends and maybe even me. I just feel more hopeful with the start of a new year.
Oh and I love new year's resolutions! So many people vow not to make them because they don't keep them, and I'm not any different. But it's not so much that a resolution is something I keep myself from doing permanently (for ex. I will not do_______ or eat _______ ) or promise myself to do all the time but instead it's a new idea that I'm trying to introduce into my life or a new way of thinking and acting that I'd like to practice. I have 7 things I'm trying to work on this year but here are two I'd like to share:
-Revive an old hobby or pick up a new one. When I was a kid I had hobbies and spent my free time doing things I liked to do and looked forward to doing. Now I spend most of my weekends cleaning the apt or grocery shopping. = If my 10 year-old self met my current self she'd say "dang this is what I have to look forward to? You're boooooring!" Here is a partial list of the things I'm thinking of (re)doing: play sports regularly, memorize one song on the piano, go NYC thrift store shopping, learn web page design, collect funny pictures from my childhood from family and friends, biking, baking, sewing...and the list goes on. I may try to do just focus on a handful or give each a try several times and see which ones are more fun. It's fun to have choices!
-Improve the quality of my relationships. This sounds a little vague but the best way for me to explain it is that I want to work on being a better wife, daughter, sister, friend, coworker, etc. I want to deepen these relationships and build on them with my time, thoughts, care and prayer. The older I get the easier it is for me to just get so absorbed in my own world but I want to venture out of it more this year and, for a lack of a better term- love on others more. I will try to call others when I think about them, invite people over to dinner and plan group events/activities. (keyword is try
) I love my family and friends so much but I wonder if they know just how much. I'll be darned if I go out of this world and they don't know just how much I really love and appreciate them.
2007 was a really rad year with crazy ups and downs and a lot of surprises but overall a really blessed year. I'm really looking forward to all 2008 will bring. Happy New Year everyone!